Age Spots On Face
Question by shane’s mummy =D xoxo: did i do the wrong thing or is this proof he will never change?
ok my partner is horrible with money he is so in debt its not funny
we sat down with his mum and made arrangements that he will give me the money each week that needs to be put away for bills and i will put it in my saving account so that he cant spend it
it took me and his mum ages to convince him that it was nessicary
but on fri when he got paid he didnt give me any because he said he didnt get paid full this week
he put petrol in his car we went to his aunts for the weekend and h drove his cousin and her friend around heaps and used half a tank of petrol in a few days he bought a few soft drinks and some food
he hasnt ought any nappys or groceries this week at all
yeaterday i asked him how much money we had left this week and he didnt tell me he just gave me money to pay for petrol and when i got back to the car he was stuffing a wad of money in his wallet in a hiding spot that he said was the money for bills but he was trying to hide it from me
i asked him to give it to me so i could put it in my account lkie we agreed and h argued with me and said just to leave it at home not in my account but he didnt give it to me
so last night i went and took the money out of his wallet so i could put it away and he asked so did you take my money in a confrontational tone i said yes and he cracked it because i didnt ask
but i did earlier and he didnt give it to me
we got into an argument and eventualy i “closed” the nursery door in on him and he started swearing and yelling saying “slam the F**king door on my face.”
did i do the wrong thing taking the money out of his wallet or is he a controll freak and not going to change?
thanks advance for all answers
Best answer:
Answer by Janine G
he has a problem dump him and find a responsible fellow
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Yea, he really is not responsible at all. I would drop him.
You are his g/f NOT his wife, he owes you NOTHING.
He DOES need to take responsibility for his kid.
You and “mum” kick his sorry @ out and tell him if he wants to come back he marries you first and gets some financial counseling.
That money is going somewhere and it isn’t on bills.I’d bet it is going on weed.
yep, untrustworthy,m he was probably hiding it so he could blow it on alcohol
no you didn’t do the wrong thing, you know what needs to be payed, your at home all day, you’ve got the time to pay the bills, to do the shopping etc, it’s only common sense that you have the money that goes on bills and groceries.
i think that you both should be entitled to an equal allowance and the rest that doesn’t go on groceries adn bills should be put into a fund for rainy days.
I cant understand why he would jeopardise his family like this, he is meant to be the provider. obviously he is just too young to understand his role as a parent and as a partner.
He has to get his priorities right and i think until that happens you should take your son and get the hell out of there.
Perhaps then he will really understand and appreciate how the world works, that things need to be paid, that they don’t just happen.
hope this helps.
good luck, in the end the decision is up to you, but put alot of thought into it, you don’t want your son to grow into a man who doesn’t know how to pay bills on time and be in debt his whole life.
Not all, he sounds so immature and irresponsible. He doesnt seem to want to try. I think its time you start planning to leave him, but do it smartly..